Depends what you are attracted to. I m from the north, so I like my men to wear hoodies, tims, and have some scruff. When I lived in Alabama all the men wore pink collar polo shirts and had long blonde surfer hair and flip flops. All the girls there loved it but I thought it was hideous and would never date a man dressed like that...hahaBut I think guys in the south were a little more gentleman-ly since alot of the girls down there still like to play the southern bell court me crap.
Neither. It depends on the individual