I went to school in western Massachusetts. Amherst/Northampton are college towns. Between UMass, Amherst, Smith, Mt. Hollyoke, and Hampshire there are some 30,0000+ undergrads in the area. A fair amount of the entertainment jobs are geared towards them.Northampton is extremely gay friendly. Lots of rainbow flags, more than 1 gay club that I m aware of, couples are quite affectionate in public and no one blinks an eye. It s really cool. There are a lot of interesting restaurants and boutiques downtown. The hiking/biking in the nearby Berkshire mountains is really nice. Rent is extremely affordable in comparison to more urban parts of the east coast, it s a good place to live on a rather tight budget - I paid $300 a month as a student sharing a (crappy) 4 bedroom place in Sunderland. The bus system is extremely good, because of all the students. As far as jobs - it really depends on what exactly you want to do and expect to be paid. I can t give you much of an answer beyond that Massachusetts hasn t been hit as hard by the recession as a lot of other areas.If you like small town, it s a great place. If you want some of the amenities of a big city, you re out of luck. The closest large city - Springfield - is a dying, crime filled dump. Worcester and Hartford aren t much better. Boston is a great city, but it s a two hour drive.Last I knew, UMass was on the order of 15k a year for state residents (you d qualify after living in MA for 1-2 years), 20-something for out of state. The private schools are 30-something a year. I ve been out of school for a couple years so my info might be slightly dated.If you want more urban, Boston is great. It s also extremely gay friendly (particularly Somerville and Jamaica plain). There s a ton of top-notch colleges there too - mostly private though. You d be paying a good amount to live/study there.
I ve visited the town a few times, but I m unsure of the job situation or housing cost, however, there are several colleges to choose from in the Northampton area. I can assure you, you won t be the only starving college kid working on a doctorate in town There is a very large lesbian population in Northampton as well, same goes for nearby AmherstEDIT: Kman is incorrect on Worcester. Worcester has improved a lot in recent years and is really a nice place, though much of the downtown area is still a dump (there are also a few other rough areas mainly Main South), Worcester has many nice neighborhoods, he is right when it comes to Springfield, hartford and Western Massachusetts, however.