I bought my girlfriend a holiday 4 us to new york and she says she doesnt wanna go? -

so i bought it as a surprise, cost a fortune and shes bein an idiot sayin she wont have money bla bla its just an excuse what should i do?how many people would refuse a holiday to new york ? a free holiday at that

Take another girl! or go with a friend and send her pics!

I think it was a lovely thing to do,being so generous,surprizes are sometimes wonderful for a woman. But I think she could just be trying to tell you that you should have consulted her first before you went and made that decision to both go to New York. Doesnt she get a say in important matters? What if you will move her to live in another place in the future.Will she get to have a say in that?? She is probably worried that you dont take her feelings into consideration. If you sit down with her and patiently listen to her,showing her that you care about how she feels and that you are in touch with her feelings,and want her to have her say in your future plans,then she could soon change her mind and come to New York with you,glad to be with you knowing that you care more for her than the trip.

My son offered me a free trip to Europe for 10 days. He had to go on business and he would like to take me. I was very reluctant to go. The reason was that even though he was paying for the trip I would have no spending money at all. I wouldn t be able to buy a meal while he was at work or buy a souvenir or even a cup of coffee should I want to. I couldn t get the bus to go and see the sites or take a tour. I could just stay in my lovely first class hotel room and look out the window. My son kept asking my why and I told him how I felt. He and my other son gave me 500 dollars to spend on the trip and I went. It could very well be this same problem that is keeping her from going. Instead of calling her names be a little understanding as to her issue and her pride. She just might be embarrassed like I was. If you care about this girl then act like it. It often happens that people do things for others in hopes of getting a particular reaction in return. Its not fair to either one of you. You will be disappointed and she will be dumbfounded about why you are angry.

Would you have been able to cover the costs of everything else (a room, food, etc) ?If so, maybe she feels guilty, or you ve piled on too much too soon. Slow the pace down.

serves you right for doing it without asking her. she is not being an idiot, and name calling is not the answer. many people would refuse a free trip to new york. good luck by yourself.

Drop that hoe.

what a b*tch

What is the best route from Boise, Id to Sacramento, Ca to avoid snow in December? -

I am making the drive from Boise, Id, to Sacramento, Ca in the middle of December. This is a trip i can t avoid but am driving a honda civic with less the best tires. Before you say, buy tires or don t take the trip, neither of those are options. Please only reply with actual working routes from Boise, Id to Sacramento California. Thank you

You might want to avoid Donner Pass on I-80. Chain requirements are common.Try this route:http://maps.google.com/maps?f=d source=s��You can check highway conditions here:http://www.dot.ca.gov/cgi-bin/roads.cgior call 1-800-427-7623

Go up I-5 to the Sacramento Airport off-ramp, park in the long term lot and take the shuttle to the terminal.

try to avoid Colorado.

not a good idea because if it snows they close down the roads for hours untill they clear the snow

check google maps terrain and turn the live weather button on.

Will the Seaworld San Antonio less crowded on Christmas Eve 2009 ? -

Maybe. It is currently closed, but opened between December 19th and January 4th (but closed on Christmas Day and New Years Day). Depends on the weather.

probably, cuz many people don t go, they just chill with the family

What is the quickest route from Los Angeles to San Francisco? -

In January, I am driving from Los Angeles to San Francisco to attend a 1-day seminar. I need to get there the quickest way possible and the scenic route is not a priority. Can anyone provide recommendations as to the quickest way to get there? As long as I can get to my seminar that starts at 11AM on that Saturday, I am a happy camper.Thanks in advance!

yeah, take the interstate 5, which cuts through the middle of california. it ll take you between 5 or 6 hours to do the trip, assuming you stay around the speed limit. you might also consider flying. southwest airlines usually has some pretty cheap deals, and the airtime between LA and SF is usually about an hour.

Then you should fly. To go by road, you will have to be heading north by 3AM to make it in time. 4AM at the absolute latest. Take the I-5 north intil you see the signs giving you the exit to San Francisco.

Take the 5 freeway. It is about 5 - 6 hours from LA to San Fran. Don t take PCH - it will be scenic but will take forever.

Quickest way is to fly. If driving, quickest way is I-5.

The I-5 SouthThe US-101 (scenic) would take way to long

I-5

I-5... about 4 hours