We have lived in Middletown for 5 years having moved here from southern NJ. It is as you say, small-town feel with friendly people. That is something we noticed immediately. Shopping is not what it was in NJ, but it is adequate. I was used to going 5 minutes or less, now it s more like 20 minutes. I think maybe too many stores in NJ!! Even with the economy as it is, there is a lot of building-homes stores. As far as the Appo Schools, we have no school age children, but from what I know, it is competetive. There is also a Charter school in Middletown which I do know is very good. Welcome to Middletown! You will not be sorry you re-located here.
I do not know seeing this is a section for Washington DC.