Worcester County, Massachusetts however, winters here do suck, other than that it is a very nice place to live
If your husband has a transferable job, find out if the company has openings some place else. NC is hard on families, they tax you to death. I worked there for 2 years, at $12 an hour, we were just barely making ends meet.
You could try somewhere in New England (maybe Maine or Massachusetts), or you could go somewhere in New York besides NYC (maybe upstate New York).
Incline Village, NV